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  • Three days into September and it's almost like a switch has been thrown from summer to autumn with the move between months.  While I would have preferred a slower transition (and hopefully we will have a few warmer days before autumn really kicks in), the change in season has really added to my recent feelings of getting ready to move into a new season, a new pace of life.

    With that said, I have really enjoyed taking the time to slow down and figure out what I want to spend the rest of this year focusing on.  I knew that I wanted only a handful of areas to focus on and that those areas needed to only things that were the most important to me.  As we head towards Thanksgiving and Christmas, I wanted to make sure that I have the margin in my time and heart to find joy and celebrate life.

    Here are the areas that I am focusing on:

    Wellness || Find balance and freedom in this area by making progress and moving towards where I want to be.

    Career || Set boundaries for myself in relation to work so that I have the space to learn new skills while having a balance between the hours I am working and my home life. Learn to lead myself well and figure out how to lead when I am not in charge.  

    Soul || Plug into God and His kingdom in a way that is vulnerable and real.  Read the Word, pray, settle into a church and build new, deep relationships.

    Blog || Be intentional with the content that I am sharing on my blog, ensuring that it either teaches, encourages, inspires or uplifts those who read it.

    2018 || Begin to think about and develop my plans for 2018. Consider new goals, a new One Little Word word, implementing new routines etc.

    Project || Start working on my two new projects. Set aside time to develop them and make progress on them.

     During September I will be focusing on the following specific goals:

    Monthly
    Create a blog schedule and content ideas
    Tell a story using the AE Story Kit
    Celebrate my birthday
    Work on new project

    Weekly
    New blog post
    Reconnect with two friends
    Write to Granny
    Move my body twice a week for 30 minutes
    Work on project life

    Daily
    Write the Word Journal
    Eat well
    Vitamins
    10 minute tidy
    Keep work hours
    Take lunch away from my desk

    Hope you have a productive and enjoyable month.  
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    I came across this quote early on in the month and I had no idea that it was going to be something to hold onto all month.  I love the simplicity of the message, the truth in the words. I have been doing a lot of thinking and reflecting and I keep coming back to those things that are most important in life. To being honest and truthful, making the most of what we have, to be happy with the simple pleasures of life and to have courage when times are tough or things go wrong. That is part of what makes a good life and I am so grateful for the reminder.

    In a few days, I am off to spend four glorious days, all on my own, at the beach and I am looking forward to it. Hopefully, the weather will be nice and I can spend time walking along the water, swimming in the pool and exploring the local area but while I am catching up on my R&R I also want to take the opportunity to plan my goals and areas of focus for the rest of the year.  So while I plan out the rest of 2017 I intend to keep this quote front and center.
       
    As we head into the final month of Summer and into my planning for the rest of the year, I want to keep Augusts goals light and simple.  I have aligned them to my Summer Refresh goals which I shared previously and hope to make some real progress on my Wellness project.  So this is what I plan to work on this new month.

    Monthly Goals
    Read the Body Love book || I have heard such good reviews on this book over the past four weeks that I had to go ahead and get the book for myself.
    Go on a solo adventure || I am off to the beach as I mentioned earlier but before I head off there I want to find a few fun things to see and do.
    Look into investments and stocks || This one has been on my tending list for a few months and while I have made progress I haven't gotten to the stage where I am ready to actually invest, which is where I want to be by the end of the month.
    Try a new church || This one makes my heart sad. I still haven't found a church that I can call home and get involved in.  I need to change that.
    Create a new story layout || I'm not exactly sure how I want to document my Wellness journey just yet but at the very least I want to make sure that I document one story layout to go into it.
    Renew home insurance || Not exactly exciting but a necessity.
    Identify and define the focus areas for the rest of 2017 || Already touched on above but basically, I want to pick four or five areas to make progress in by the end of the year and define what that progress looks like.

    Weekly Goals
    Have 3 zero £ days || I am hoping that this goal will help me be more intentional when I'm wanting to spend my money and will help me to spend less.
    Write a postcard to granny || After doing this for seven months now you would think this would be a habit by now but alas, it is not. If I don't have it on my list it doesn't get done.
    Create 1 blog post || I am trying to create meaningful content and so I am aiming for one post a week.
    Track spending || This is another one that should be a habit by now but just isn't....so I keep it on here every month to help me stay on track.

    Daily Goals
    Write the Word
    Vitamins
    Move my body
    TV off at 8pm
    10-minute tidy

    And that is what this month will hopefully be looking like. I hope that you enjoy the last few weeks of summer.
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    Hey, it has been a little while since I've posted anything on here. For a short time there I wasn't sure if I was going to carry on with my blog or not but after some reflection and thinking I have decided to continue with it, although I am looking to add more informative posts, sharing some things that I have been growing through and changes that I have made.  For now, though, I wanted to kick things off again by sharing my summer goals.  

    Make a list of all the things I want to do this summer and go do them || This one has been super important to me. When I set it, I knew that I didn't want this summer to pass me by without being intentional with my time. A few things that I knew I wanted to make time to do is to go to the beach, take my lunch break outside, eat breakfast in the garden, grow some vegetables and spend time in the pool. 

    Create a plan and be intentional about my healing and health || I have been having some health issues for a few years now and I feel like I am at the stage where I have tried everything I can on my own and its time to go see the doctor.  So this summer I plan to work with my doctor to figure out what is going on and then I plan to start my own Wellness Project. 

    Continue to actively pursue my relationship with God ||  I have been making good progress so far this year and I it is important to me to make sure that continues. I plan to keep on using my Write the Word journal during my quiet time to both get into the word and track my prayers. Sometimes "simple" is best and that is what I am going for. 

    Make rest a priority || This is another important one for me. I am pretty sure that part of my health problems have been made worse by all the stress that I have been experiencing. While I know I that some of this stress is outside of my control, I want to make an effort to reduce it where I can and take the time daily to relax and unwind.  

    Invest in relationships and friendships this summer || Summer is a great time to be out and about with friends and family and I want to make the most of that. Going to parks for a picnic or out into the woods and fields for a hike is a great way to catch up on each other's lives. Relationships are important and I want to make sure that I am growing and nurturing the ones that I have. 

    Begin working on my business idea || I have a plan and I hope to be ready to start it at the beginning of 2018. I have a lot of work to do between now and then but I also want this process to be fun. I have a full-time job so this, in the beginning, will be a side business....meaning it is not "do or die".  I'm excited to see where this goes.

    So there you have it - the areas that I have been and will continue to be focusing on during the rest of the summer.  I would love to see what goals you are working towards so feel free to leave a link to them and I will definitely come by and take a look.
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    OK, where has April gone! It has been one very busy month for me....lots of miles driven for work, an interview for a new job that didn't go as well as I would have hoped, redecorating my bedroom and cleaning up the yard. Easter spent with the family, a trip to the movies to watch Beauty and The Beast and a few visits to the doctor for some blood tests.  A lot of #reallife stuff went on last month that is likely to creep on over to this month but I am ready. Ready for a fresh month, ready to carry on with making progress and ready to continue embracing my story and seeing where it takes me.
    Here are my May Goals:

    Monthly

    • Walk 100,000 steps between the 1st and 21st 
    • Immerce myself in the Colour Conference and ENJOY it!
    • Clear out of my closet
    • Create 4 weeks worth of menus and shopping lists
    • Learn about stocks
    • Continue exploring Whole in relation to my One Little Word
    • Apply for a new job

    Weekly

    • Create 1 blog post
    • Track weekly spending
    • Intentionally connect with others
    • Take time to create
    • Netball

    Daily

    • Read 
    • Write the Word Journal

    I am looking forward to the month ahead.  Looking forward to the sun coming out more often (hopefully). Looking forward to getting some answers and making some progress on my health. Looking forward to Colour Conference and some time off work. What are you looking forward to?
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    Eighteen days until it is officially spring....and yes, I am counting!  I can not wait for the weather to get a little warmer and the sun to come up a little earlier.  Right now I am fighting off a cold and not feeling so great but the thought of spring being just around the corner is helping me get through.

    Spring brings the opportunity for a refresh on my goals and I decided to make the most of it. Where as I started 2017 with yearly goals, I decided that I wanted to set myself goals to cover the next three months.  And while that refresh was just what I needed it is great to see that my refresh goals still line up with the yearly ones to some extent.

    Here are the goals that I will be focusing on over the next three months:

    01| Continue with the practice of listening to my body by asking what it needs and paying attention to       how it feels
    02| Give my emotions less control over my eating and exercise habits
    03| Set up my blog in such a way that it leaves those who read it feeling hopeful, challenged and                  positive
    04| Broaden the circle of friends in my life
    05| Create a realistic plan for my financial future
    06| Get to know who God really is
    07| Be curious about what living a whole life looks like
    08| Take action on my goal to raise enough money to help free someone from human trafficking


    From there I took myself and my powersheets off for a few hours to a somewhat local marina where you can find a coffee shop that has actually won awards for the best hot chocolate in England!  I kid you not....that hot chocolate was delicious and well worth the award and the price tag.

    Here are what my March Goals look like:

    Monthly

    • Spend time with new and old friends 
    • Create a three month blog plan and decide on topics
    • Set up my Retire Ready account
    • Read one book
    • Research fundraising ideas 
    • Create and tweak my morning routine
    • Create and tweak a weekly exercise routine

    Weekly

    • Listen to a podcast 
    • Track weekly spending using my Every Dollar account
    • Continue with the photography challenge
    • Take time to create
    • Blog 
    • Actively review how my One Little Word whole is showing up in my life

    Daily

    • Nourish my body well 25 out of 31 days 
    • Spend time in the Word
    • Exercise Monday to Friday


    A beautiful reminder as we head into yet another month full of potential and unknowns. 
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    February has been a busier than expected month and while I wasn't able to cross off all of my goals on my tending list I am pleased with the progress.  Like I did in January's review I am going to share my progress against the yearly goals that I set.

    Here is a recap of my yearly goals and what progress I have made against them this month:

    01| Waste less time in front of the TV and spend that time doing something that fires me up
    This continues to be one of my most favorite goals that I set for myself and while I have removed it from my Spring goals, I plan to continue using my evenings to make progress and refresh my body and soul. This month I have used my evenings to work on my project life album, read I don't want to wait anymore and I joined a netball team who train every Wednesday evening.

    02 | Impact my wider community by raising £4053 for A21 to use to help set someone free from human trafficking while continuing with my local volunteering
    I continue to volunteer as a counselor but haven't made any progress on raising money for A21. I am going to make some serious progress on this one in March.

    03 | Learn and explore what it means for me to truly live a life that is whole
    This month I focused on learning to listen to my body. Every day I took the time to ask myself what my body needed and then I did that. It has been an amazing experience and I plan to share more of it in a separate post next month.

    04 | Dive deeper into my relationship with God and remember that is is about relationship and not about performing, tasks or legalism
    I have continued with my daily devotional and prayer but didn't make a whole load of progress with the bible study.  I have some good plans in place for this next month and am looking forward to seeing how this grows.

    05 | Figure out what it means to care for myself mentally, emotionally, physically and spiritually and how to do it more often.
    I have touched on this one above already but it is worth adding that this is going to have to be an ongoing focus for me. This took me being intentional every single day but it was worth the effort I had to put in.

    06 | Nourish my body well more consistently and focus on building strength and flexibility in my body
    I am glad to say that I have been pretty consistent with exercise this month. Its only been two or three sessions each week but they have been consistent.  Food on the other hand.....the first two weeks were totally on point but the last two weeks not so much.

    07| Share meaningful content and impact others by purposefully using my blog and any platform God gives me
    I have managed to share about one post a week but it hasn't been the meaningful content that I had planned.

    08 | Research and create a plan for my long term/retirement needs
    This month I have continue to set a budget and track my weekly spending against that budget. I have also found an online tool to help me begin assessing my needs and requirements for my financial future.

    09 | Cultivate richer relationships while taking the time to make new ones
    The plan was to meet up with two separate group of friends this month but the second get together got cancelled at the last minute.  I have however begun making some new friends at my new netball group and I am looking forward to continue working on those.

    10 | Preparing myself to be a wife and mother while trusting and waiting on God's timing for this area of my life
    This goal has changed slightly for me this month and while the core of this goal hasn't changed, my perspective on it has.

    As part of the spring refresh section in the powersheets, I have changed my yearly goals to quarterly goals. This means that I will share my refreshed goals in my next post.  
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    Hello February, so nice to have you arrive. I love, love, love January with all its new starts and fresh pages but I must admit, January feels a little pressured to me. There is that expectation to change myself and my world with a snap of the finger and it leaves me feeling like I am holding my breath the entire month.  February just seems more gentle, more forgiving, more room to breath.

    On Monday I had a day off work and spent a few hours this morning finishing off January and deciding on February's goals.  Here is what I will be focusing on:


    Monthly Goals
    • Read I don't wait anymore | I have heard such good things about this book and am looking forward to diving in. 
    • Spend time with two different sets of friends | This is already planned in. On the 2nd I am going for dinner with Julie, Veronica and Lisa and around the 26th I am going to a new Japanese restaurant with LeAndra. 
    • Follow up on volunteering with UAVA | In January I emailed UAVA but havent yet heard back from them so need to do some follow up. 
    • Complete the One Little Word prompt | I am really excited about what my word will bring this year.
    • Choose a focus for Whole | Listen to this months prompt and pick an area to focus on. 
    • Research fundraising ideas | I want to make a start on my fundraising but need some inspiration and ideas as I have never really done any sort of fundraising before. Something new to learn! 
    • Gather all my financial documents, terms and balances | This feels like the first step towards looking at my long term financial needs. 
    • Set a budget | I made good progress with this in January and hope to continue with it. 

    Weekly Goals
    • Publish 1 meaningful blog post 
    • Track weekly spend
    • Immerse myself in a bible study twice a week
    • Continue with the photography challenge
    • Spend time creating
    • Listen to a podcast

    Daily Goals
    • Daily devotional
    • Take my vitamins
    • Talk to God
    • No YouTube in bed
    • Focus on eating low GI foods
    • Get my body moving!

    Hope you have a progress filled, grace fueled month. If you want to take a look at my January progress you can read about here. 
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    I have loved using the power sheets this month. It has been so encouraging to measure my progress and use my tending list to help guide my decisions as to how to spend my time. Now that is life changing for me!   

    This year, instead of sharing specific progress against the monthly goals I have set, I thought it would be interesting to show the progress I have made (with the help of the monthly goals) against my yearly goals.

    Here is a recap of my yearly goals and what progress I have made.   

    01 | Waste less time in front of the TV and spend that time doing something that fires me up 
    This goal has been one of my most favorite this month.  I have loved turning off the TV after dinner and heading upstairs. This month I have spent this time working on project life, reading two (The GI Diet and The 10 Day Detox) and a half (The Power of I am) books, taking time to pray and study my bible and just generally get to bed earlier.

    02 | Impact my wider community by raising £4053 for A21 to use to help set someone free from human trafficking while continuing with my local volunteering 
    No progress on this in January.

    03 | Learn and explore what it means for me to truly live a life that is whole
    This month I focused on completing my One Little Word prompt, on getting the basics in place for what the word means, for what I am hoping for this year and for some inspirational quotes.

    04 | Dive deeper into my relationship with God and remember that it is about relationship and not about performing, tasks or legalism 
    I have been focusing on three areas this month; a daily devotional (which I have loved and only missed a handful of days through the month), started doing the Living Free bible study by Beth Moore, and continued to add to my prayer jar. 

    05 | Figure out what it really means to care for myself mentally, emotionally, physically and spiritually and how to do it more often 
    Although I didn't have a specific goal for this area this month the one thing that I can say that I really did a number of times in January was intentionally listen to my body when I felt tired. This meant a few more bubble baths than normal, lighting some candles, climbing into bed earlier etc. I also enjoyed two at home spa evenings.

    06 | Nourish my body well more consistently and focus on building strength and flexibility in my body 
    I have not made much progress in this area in January. I mainly managed to get some sort of exercise in on the weekend with little to none during the week and I struggled with meal prep the last week of the month.

    07 | Share meaningful content and impact others by purposefully using my blog and any platform God gives me 
    This month I have managed to get back into blogging. I have thoroughly enjoyed sharing the posts that I have...although I am aiming to add more meaningful posts next month.

    08 | Research and create a plan for my long term/retirement needs 
    While I haven't made any progress on my long term needs, I have set a budget this month and taken a slightly different approach to tracking my spend - weekly rather than the monthly I was doing before. While the weekly tracking takes more dedication, I have definitely felt more on top of what I have been spending and found that it has made me more careful with what I am purchasing.

    09 | Cultivate richer relationships while taking the time to make new ones 
    This month I met up with a friend for dinner and a movie, had another friend pop in for a quick cup of tea and I made some new friends when I joined my local women's netball team.

    10 | Prepare myself to be a wife and mother while I trust and wait on God's timing for this area of my life
    In order to make space in my home for my future husband, I re-decorated my bathroom and added a gorgeous bathroom cabinet. I went through all the books in my house and got rid of those that I no longer need/want. I have also started thanking God for the man He has for me, thanking Him in faith for what He is doing behind the scenes at the moment. 

    So that is the progress I have made in the first month of twenty seventeen - not too bad. 
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    Ahhh, hello January, I am so pleased you have arrived. The last few months of 2016 were tough going for me and my family and I was glad to see the end of the year.  While there is something magical about a new year, a clean slate...there is no chiming of the clock that stops the difficult emotions and situations from coming across into the new year. The hard things from 2016 are going to continue into 2017 and I am aware and as prepared as is possible for that but as I begin to work on new goals I am welcoming GRACE into the coming months for all that is to come.

    With all that in mind, I shared my big picture goals for 2017 earlier this week and now I want to share with you the smaller goals I am focusing on in January.  

    Monthly Goals
    • Enjoy a friend date | I already have the 15th planned into my diary although we are not sure yet what we will be doing in that time.
    • Declutter and organise my books | I have this bad habit of buying too many books at one time and then they sit unread on my bookshelf as I buy new ones.  My goal is to get rid of any that I no longer want and organise those that I want to read this year.
    • Read 1 book | From the list above
    • Look into volunteering with UAVA | Last year I started volunteering as a counselor with a charity who provide help to victims of sexual assault and abuse. I have really enjoyed my time there and have learnt so much but they are a little too far from where I live. As such, I have been thinking about possibly volunteering somewhere else, and I think UAVA may just be the place. 
    • Complete the One Little Word prompt | I am really excited about what my word will bring this year.
    • Have a pamper session twice this month | I am in desperate need of getting my hair cut and colored so that is on the list this month. I will also probably do a session one evening at home involving putting on a mask, paint my nails etc.
    • Make a start on project life | This will be my third year doing project life and I love it. My goal this year is to continue telling the story of my life in this manner.
    • Declutter and organise my bathroom | One of my goals this year is to prepare myself for a husband and family and one of the ways I am doing this is by making space in my home for them.  This month I am starting in my bathroom.
    • Attend my dentist appointments with courage and bravery | The dentist terrifies me!!  But I go twice a year because I know that it is a part of looking after my body. A week before Christmas I had my six month check up and unfortunately I need to have my wisdom tooth surgically removed. The appointments will probably be this month hence my goal.
    • Budget and track my expenses | Last year I got a little slack with the whole budgeting thing so I am recommitting to creating and tracking against a budget each month.

    Weekly Goals
    • Create 1 meaningful blog post 
    • Meal plans
    • Immerse myself in a bible study
    • Take part in Beth Adilly's photography challenge

    Daily Goals
    • Consistantly track my progress with good nutrition
    • Consistantly track my progress with daily movement
    • Daily devotional
    • Eat whole foods

    I have some really big goals this year and am excited to begin making progress, little by little, on them. 


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    Apart from seeing family and the time off work over Christmas, one of my most favorite things about December is spending some time setting goals and getting ready for a new year.  This year I decided to splurge and buy myself Lara Casey's powersheets. I read her book a few years ago now but this is the first time I have gone with the actual sheets.


    There are so many great steps to work through during the prep section . One of my most favorite though was identifying those things that fire me up. That term, fires me up, has always seemed a little abstract to me until working on these sheets and then it hit me.... it just means those things that either excite me or those things that leave me feeling refreshed in my mind, body and soul.  Using Canva I created a vision board of what fires me up for my powersheets book and I love how it turned out.


    After compiling the list of things that fired me up, I then moved onto my Big Picture for the new year. Lots of ladies did collages for this one but I wanted to keep it a little more simple - words and pretty water colors was all that I wanted for this.  It was nice to think big without having the pressure on myself to make it a goal; at this stage it was just general thoughts, ideas and whispers down on paper.


    If this is the first that you have heard of the powersheets or if you weren't able to get your hands on a copy don't worry, Lara is doing a mini series on her blog which you can follow along with. Another thing that Lara encourages you to do is to pick a word. I have taken part in Ali Edwards One Little Word project for three years now and have signed up for my fourth year. By the end of November I already new what my 2017 word would be (I will share more about this in January) so this part of the process was already taken care of.

    Next and finally came the actual goal setting and this year I feel like these goals are REALLY going to be stretching me.In all honesty, they are rather scary but I truly believe that these are where I need to start. What I really liked, and what relieved some of the pressure to get these goals "perfect", was that the powersheets book has a quarterly reset section. This gives me the freedom to tweak and change my goals if I feel they need to be. For now though, here are my 2017 goals:

    01 | Waste less time in front of the TV and spend that time doing something that fires me up because I want to take better care of myself which meas no hiding in front of the TV. I plan to do this by having a TV cut off time, actually plan activities that fire me up, spend some time reading and create a night time routine that works for me.

    02 | Impact my wider community by raising £4053 for A21 to use to help set someone free from human trafficking while continuing with my local volunteering because I want to make a different in other peoples lives. I plan to do this by researching different ways to raise money, set up a Go Fund Me page and execute the plans decided on.

    03 | Learn and explore what it means for me to truly live a life that is whole because I want to live and experience a full life. I plan to do this by completing Ali Edwards One Little Word prompts each month, blog about what I am learning along this journey, take part in a weekly photography project and take the time to celebrate all that life has to offer.

    04 | Dive deeper into my relationship with God and remember that it is about relationship and not about performing, tasks or legalism because I want to really know God and have Him be a part of my every day life.  I plan to do this by tracking my prayers and God's answers, spending time in bible studies, reading books, praying and exploring what a whole relationship with God looks like.

    05 | Figure out what it really means to care for myself mentally, emotionally, physically and spiritually and how to do it more often because I need to look after myself before I can care for others fully.  I plan to do this through spending time in worship and prayer, by replacing Satan's lies with biblical truth, sitting with my emotions more, enjoying pamper sessions and taking the time to create.

    06 | Nourish my body well more consistently and focus on building strength and flexibility in my body because I want to be honoring God with the body He has given me. I plan to do this by only getting on the scale once a month, track the consistency of both my nutrition and body movement, create weekly meal plans, create a well rounded exercise plan and attend all doctor and dentist appointments as required.

    07 | Share meaningful content and impact others by purposefully using my blog and any platform God gives me because I want to improve my writing skills and impact others while building a community. I plan to do this by deciding on reoccurring content, pray and set a blog schedule and routine.

    08 | Research and create a plan for my long term/retirement needs because I want to be a good steward of what I have been given. I plan to do this by researching different retirement plans, speak to a financial planner, learn about the stock market and continue to budget monthly.

    09 | Cultivate richer relationships while taking the time to make new ones because God made me for relationship. I plan to do this by scheduling friend dates, making an effort to connect with friends I haven't seen or spoken to in a while, make an effort to meet new people and have people around my house for a meal more often.

    10 | Prepare myself to be a wife and mother while I trust and wait on God's timing for this area of my life because I want to continue trusting God in this area and be prepared for what He has for me in the future.  Some ideas on how to do this include read articles and books on marriage, consistently pray for my future husband and children and clear my home of clutter and excess to make room when the time comes.

    I plan to document my monthly goals and progress and would love for you to encourage me along the way. Make sure you share your own goals and progress with me so that I can encourage and support you as well.
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    Who doesn't like a good challenge .... and just in time for the beginning of summer.

    Originally, this challenge was coined by Nancy Ray and I believe the challenge should last for 12 weeks, but I am going to tweak it slightly in order to make it more accessible for myself. The biggest change is that instead of 12 weeks I am aiming for 30 days.

    Here are the Guidelines (from Nancy Ray's blog, edited for my personal challenge):
    • For the next few days, your homework is to do the following: prepare your heart, organize your closet, and make any necessary purchases that you might need during the month.
      • I did this at the end of May and those purchases have been made. I also have a list of websites that I can not purchase from and a list of items that under no circumstances am I able to buy.
    • Choose 1 inspiring book to read during this time. 
      • For this challenge I've decided to read Better Than Before by Gretchen Rubin. 
    • Necessities are okay! If you drop and break your phone, please get a new one. If you lose your glasses, buy a new pair. Just don't start justifying new purchases for items that you already have.
      • I am definitely clear on the difference between a need and a want but sometimes it is so easy to talk myself into "needing" that thing. Not this month, this month I am staying strong.

    What I won't be spending my money on:
    • scrapbook supplies other than the subscriptions I already have in place
    • clothing and shoes
    • books
    • makeup
    • beauty products
    • home decor
    • candles
    • music
    Here goes!  If you are taking part in the challenge or have done previously I would love to hear how you got on.
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    I have been struggling with my weight for around ten years - trying to work out more, trying to eat better food, trying to say no to giving in and just eating what I want. Each time I fail, each time I try a little harder...I find my heart getting wrapped up tighter and tighter.

    This is a real struggle for me. Not only to actually lose the physical weight but to unwrap my heart from the hold that this struggle has had on me. My core belief says that my worth directly relates to the number on the scale, that having a guy fall in love with me can only happen with a perfect body, that being happy is only for those who can shop in any clothing store and wear anything with confidence....but my mind knows that these beliefs are all a lie and a big one at that.

    These past few months though, my hearts cravings have been shifting. They have been moving from craving skinny, thin and beautiful to craving freedom. I crave the day when this is no longer a problem for me, when food isn't my comfort, when my weight doesn't hold me back and when my value is based on more than just what the current cultural view is on the right body type.

    I know that this change that I want in myself is not something that will happen over night. It is something that I am going to have to work on and I know that it isn't something I can do all on my own.  But this is my goal, this is what I am working towards, and this is where I am going to be owning and sharing my story while I practice loving myself every day.

    While I work on untangling my heart and re-defining my core beliefs, my weight loss goal is to lose sixty pounds by the 31st of December 2016..... and there it is! I will be checking in on my blog at least once a month and hopefully a little more every now and then.  If you have a big goal that you are working on this year, I would love it if you shared it with me so that we can encourage one another.
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    Hello February - I am so excited that you are here!  Just one more month of winter and then we head into Spring - Woohoo!! So, without further ado lets get started on February's goals.

    February's Goals

    1. Nurture the relationships already in my life | Write to Larissa, email Rayo, call Granny, see Julie. Spend time nurturing those relationships which are important to me.2. Finish reading one book | This month I plan to start reading "Harvest of Rubies" and "Restless". I am excited to make a start on both of these books. 3. Reorganize and tidy up the bathroom | It is time to have a good clear out and tidy up in the bathroom. 4. Complete January's Project Life album | Looking forward to documenting a few new things this month in Project Life.  5. Complete my One Little Word February prompt | This month's prompt is apparently going to be slightly different to previous years and I am so excited to watch the video and make a start. 6. Set a budget and track January's spend | I think I am going to have to reign in my spending a little more during February and hopefully this will help to keep me accountable.  7. Save 10% of my salary | Building up my emergency fund.8. Weigh less at the end of February than I did at the beginning of the month. | My focus for February is around consistency.....and a monthly challenge of no chocolate. Lets see what happens.  9. Track my daily habits | This month I am going to approach my daily habits in a slightly different way....and if it works better than my previous method I will be sure to share it.  10. Have my eyes tested | I haven't had an eye test in years - part of being healthy is doing that sort of thing so I am going to make a plan in order to check this off. 11. Start studying Joshua | I am loving the impact that this time has had on my life so far and will definitely be continuing with this one. Goal 11 done!  

    Here's to a great month ahead.
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    And that my friends is the end of January....boy has this month just flown by. This month has been a pretty good month but I am looking forward to it being February tomorrow.  Last year I did my monthly wrap-up and new goals in one post but this year I am going to shake things up and do separate posts. So welcome to my January wrap-up.

    January's Goals

    1.Book an appointment with the Oral Hygienist | I almost chickened out of this one. I have this ridiculous fear of dentists and while I force myself to go to my six monthly check ups, I have up until now, seen these as optional. My one little word of Brave has been lent on a lot this month because not only did I book the appointment but there was a cancellation and so I ended up going to the appointment as well during January!  Go Lynne!
    2. Finish reading one book | I had planned to finish reading "What Colour is Your Parachute" but I wanted to spend the proper time working through the activities so instead, I decided that I was going to read "Pearl in the sand". This is the second time that I have read this book and I loved it just as much, if not more, this time round. If you haven;t yet read it then take the plunge. Goal 2 done!
    3. Apply for a volunteering position | I finally applied for a volunteering role.  The next intake of new people is in April so for now this larger goal is on hold. Goal 3 done!
    4. Prepare my Project Life album for 2016 | Goal 4 Done. Feel free to take a look at my first few pages here. 
    5. Decide on my One Little Word for 2016 and complete January's prompts | So I didn't get around to sharing my pages on the blog but they are all done. This years word is turning into some really personal stuff so far so I may decide to pick and choose which prompts to share as the year goes on. Goal 5 done.
    6. Set a budget and track against it | I am counting this goal as done. Budget is all setup for the year as well as more specifically for January. The only thing that I haven't yet done is track January's spend but as the month is not yet done I haven't yet completed it. 
    7. Save 10% of my salary | Goal 7 done!
    8. Lose or maintain my weight at each weeks weigh in | January has been a bit of a fluctuating month for my weekly weigh-ins unfortunately. So while I weigh less at the end of the month than I did starting out the month, I wasn't able to keep that weight loss consistently going in the right direction. 
    9. Stretch or do Yoga each week day | This was a complete fail for me.  I think what would have made this goal more doable was if I had picked out a routine before hand. Instead I spent ages searching for the perfect one and then did't like the routine. 
    10. Take my vitamins daily | Goal 10 achieved!
    11. Come to the well | I am loving the impact that this time has had on my life so far and will definitely be continuing with this one. Goal 11 done!  

    Nine out of eleven goals done is brilliant. A great start to 2016!
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    Happy Saturday! I hope that you are having a great day.  My Saturday as been lovely so far - I am getting so much done and managing to relax while doing it.  As I shared my 2016 Goals with you earlier this week I thought it would be a good time to share my January Goals.

    This year, like last, I used Lara Caseys' Powersheets method to dig deep and identify what I wanted from this new year as well as a monthly plan of action for those larger goals.  This will allow me to make progress little by little and keep me focused on the bigger picture.

    The plan for this year is to share my monthly goals with you here, at the beginning of each month. This will allow me to update you on my previous months progress and keep me accountable. Another feature that I may add to those posts is a paragraph or two on what went well during the month and what didn't go well, in the hope that it will help me to identify the problem early on and create a course correction so that I can continue to make progress.

    January's Goals

    1.Book an appointment with the Oral Hygienist. Over the past few years I have been working on overcoming my fear of the dentist. This has meant that I have been for checkups and had a couple of fillings...and in November a root canal.  But the one thing I haven't yet done is gone to see the Oral Hygienist so my goal this month is to get something in the diary.
    2. Finish reading one book. I am currently reading "What Colour is Your Parachute" and had thought I would finish this book in January, however as I have made my way through it there are a number of activities it recommends you do and I don't want to rush through them. So instead of finishing this book my goal will be to join in the Brave Love Book Club in which we will be reading Restless by Jennie Allen.
    3. Apply for a volunteering position. This was one of my goals from 2015 that didn't end up happening but that will change this year.
    4. Prepare my Project Life album for 2016. I'm looking forward to another year of documenting my life and stories through Project Life. 
    5. Decide on my One Little Word for 2016 and complete January's prompts. More to come on this on my blog next week.
    6. Set a budget and track against it. Last year I was great at setting a monthly budget. The only problem was that I didn't actually end up spending inline with the budget. So this year, not only am I going to set a monthly budget, I am also going to do my best to get my spending in line with it.
    7. Save 10% of my salary. I'm currently working on increasing my emergency fund.
    8. Lose or maintain my weight at each weeks weigh in. This will be the year that I make significant progress on my weight loss goals. As part of this goal, I will also be putting together a weekly menu so that I can keep things as simple as possible.
    9. Stretch or do Yoga each week day. This is something that I am definitely wanting to do - I just need to find a routine to try.  If you have any suggestions feel free to let me know in the comments.
    10. Take my vitamins daily. Consistency is the key here!
    11. Come to the well. This is my goal to spend time with God daily. During the week that will probably look like prayer and a devotional while on the weekend I plan to step into some Bible studies and Bible journaling.

    So there you have it. This is what I am aiming for the first month of this year. 



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